Tired To Love

I happen to browse my page in Facebook and check all the post from my friends. One by one, trying to get something on what to write and think about this day.

Crazy and random post have been most that i have read. But when i refreshed the page, Jana Carrera's post, (one of my friends in Bacolod) have caught my attention. Her post goes like this " im tired of loving you". I just dont know what came around but my mind worked and think about things on the spot. on that very moment. 

Ugggghhhhh... I dont wanna talk about love but i guess people might need to know some bit of ideas that they could take from me. I mean, i am not genius when it comes to love but I know i have a lot when it comes to this subject. I am a victim too. A survivor. I survived after all these years becasue of my thoughts of it. 

Let's take it one at a time. My idea about love is being with someone whom you can share your life with. Someone destined for you full of unconditonalities about being in a relationship. Love is not just like the things we read on papers and books. Magazine, catalogues that says about love were just mere replica of what other people would like you to venture to. Giving you ideas on how to survive to it and how to cope with it.

We are never tired of loving. Its a fact. Sometimes we are always blinded with what we feel. We mistook everything just because we just want satisfaction selfishly. Btt did you ever think that our heart have never stopped pumping blood to supply as life? Thats just the same as you are working for a living to sustain your daily needs. Our heart were never tired of oding its task. Our heart knows whats its doing. It will never stop supplying us oxygen because we need it. Our heart. Our heart who feels LOVE. Exactly. If it never fails you to go on with life, then why say you are tired of loving? Don't you know that decisions are amde not by the heart but by the mind? 

People whom i listen too saying they are tired of loving are people who will never know what is love. Why? Because you cannot guarantee that you have learned it unless you ahve made the right decisions. Tiresome and tiredness are just a state of mind. its never felt by the heart. 

The next time you would say how you are tired of love, think of it first coz there is such no word as "tired" when it comes to love. Maybe you just don't know that the best word to use is "give up". You will give up loving a person not because you are tired. It is because you find it absurd to go out with them though your heart tells you he does not need you no more. "Tired" is maybe a harsh word to use when you want to give up your feeling. When you are tired of loving that means you're heart stopped pumping oxygen to give you life. Simple science.

To Jana, I hope you would not take this as a negative output of the things that you ahve just experienced now. Don't be tired of loving someone. If you think that person is not worthy anymore, you can just say you wanna give up and move on. It maybe hard to say. It may be painful to utter but that is how reality should be.

I know you are strong enough to face whatver this emotional turmoil is bringing you. Just go on. Speak it out loud but never be tired to love. You can imagine how beautiful life when we are in love. Happiness is along the way if you seek for true love. 

Dont give up despite of the fall. May it be your first fall or your nth fall but nobody can stop your heart from beating coz its not tired of searching and targeting someone perfected and was amde for you. Be inlove always. Thats how life should be. Never neglect what your heart say unless it will just stop.